Just some quick links

Here’s a quick bunch of links to check out in your spare time…(which, if you’re reading this site you must have in abundance -spare time, that is…)

One Word - Fun little writing exercise.
Blue Oyster Cult - an old favorite, in honor of the free concert they’re giving downtown tonight.
User-Friendly -Don’t Fear the Penguin
St. Louis traffic -Thanks to Christopher for posting this one in the comments for the previous entry.

That’s it.

Cross-town Traffic

* Remember a few months ago (okay it was more like six months) when I was complaining about the extra fifteen minutes it took for me to get to work because of some rubber neckers along highway 44? Boy, those sure were the good old days! This month we moved into our new house out in O’Fallon (to accommodate our growing family) and now I drive highway 70 to the riverfront. On a good day, the 70+ mile round trip commute will take about 40 minutes each way. Unfortunately I’ve only had one ‘good day’ of driving in the past three weeks! Twice in the past week it has taken two hours to get home, and yesterday it took an hour and forty-five minutes to get to work. This morning a single-car accident in the opposite direction added an extra twenty minutes onto my drive time just from the high RN factor (Rubber Neck factor) of the drivers going east. And it really wasn’t that spectacular of an accident… just a pickup that bounced off the median once or twice.

A Purpose Driven what???

Reflections on a Purpose-Driven Life

It’s been just about a month since Faith and I finished the “40 days to a Purpose Driven Life” We were invited by our neighbors to participate in their church’s program of “40 days” Each day we read the assigned chapter, and occasionally Faith and I would discuss our thoughts about a particular reading and how it affected us individually and as a couple. I believe that the book, in and of itself, is a great read for most christians. For beginning christians, it provides a great foundation for learning about and practicing christianity. The real value of participating in a “40 days” program comes from the fellowship opportunities within the small-group sessions. Our small group met each thursday at our neighbor’s house where we would watch a short presentation about the previous week’s readings and then a group discussion based upon the accompanying study materials. As each of the members of the small group began to share their insights and feelings and prayers, a deep bond was beginning to form that is difficult to describe. Being able to debate various points with people of varying backgrounds and perspectives led to a much deeper understanding of much of the material.

So what does a purpose driven life look like? This entry would be incomplete if I didn’t at least touch on the core content of the book and the program. Rick Warren points us to the five purposes that we accept when we become Christians:

1. * Worship - you were planned for God’s pleasure.
2. * Fellowship - you were formed to be part of God’s family.
3. * Discipleship - you were created to become like Christ.
4. * Ministry - you were shaped for God’s service.
5. * Mission - you were made to tell others about Christ.

We have quite a long way to go in our walk with Christ, but thankfully that first step has been taken. Our lives are so much richer, so much fuller and so much happier. If you think that you might find this book interesting, you should see if your church is taking part in the “40 days” and if not, well, maybe they should. If you don’t currently attend a church, that’s okay. A quick look around your own community will most likely find a church or two (or three or four) that is hosting this program and I am quite certain that they would be very happy to have you participate in the program with them. (yes, even as an ‘outsider’- after all, that’s what Faith and I were when we were took part in this)

For more information check out http://www.purposedriven.com and http://www.purposedrivenlife.com

SpamFlood

* So the system was down most of Sunday and early Monday thanks to some idiot spammers. Turns out that one of the sites that I host had (note the use of the word ‘had’) a cgi script that allowed people to send email to him via a web-based form interface. The spammers figured out a way to utilize a flaw in the script that allowed them to send thousands upon thousands of emails through the system. As many of you know, the box that hosts this site and the one in question (as well as a few others) is a modest, ten year old Sun Microsystems Sparc 20 with NetBSD for its OS. As a testimony to the reliability of the system, it never completely crashed. Of course response times were being measured in hours… So, I did in fact have to reboot the system in order to regain control of the mail facilities. I had to clear the queues and disable the cgi script until such time that I could provide a fix or workaround. I won’t go into specific details here on just how the cgi script was abused (since I don’t have a fix at the moment) Perhaps once I fix the issue, I may share the reset of the gory details. I will say that for the most part, the script did a good job of validating most of the input it was accepting. If you really want details, send me an email and I might be willing to discuss the details, but please don’t post comments asking about the specifics as they will be ignored.

Sold!

* Praise the Lord! With a total of thirteen days on the market, our house has sold! There were about six different showings yesterday, and we received a total of four different bids! The winning bid actually came in over our asking price! Now we just have to finish up with all of the various inspections. The local fire department came by last week for a safety inspection. We failed that one because we didn’t have our address numbers on the house itself. (the numbers have always been on the mailbox) No big deal there, I put up the numbers next to the door and the safety inspector came by, noticed that the numbers were up and presented us with our safety certificate! I still need to finish up painting Logan’s room. Yep, the wild dark blue ceiling is gone, replaced with a more neutral white. We told our real estate agent to ask the buyers what color they would like in that bedroom. I figure, if I’m painting anyway, I might as well put in the color that they want, and maybe save them from having to paint over whatever arbitrary color I would put in there on my own. We have a lot of stuff already packed up, but there is a great deal left before we can move. We just might hire a moving company this time to make things go a bit easier. Especially since Faith is pregnant, and with the three boys, it’ll probably be a good idea to let someone else handle as much of the move as we can afford.

In a way, it’s a bit sad to be saying goodbye to this house… There are so many memories here. Getting remarried on the back porch the day we moved in… All the different projects, from remodeling the bathrooms, the landscaping, building and then re-building Logan’s fort in the back yard… Good times were had here, that’s for sure.

Magic Kingdom for Sale..

* (with apologies to Terry Brooks) With the coming addition to our family this fall, we decided that our wonderful home is just too small for us anymore. We’ve been spending the last month getting the house cleaned up and much of the clutter either thrown out our packed up. And as of yesterday, our house in now on the market and available to purchase! (C’mon, you know you always wanted to live in beautiful Ballwin!) Of course, we didn’t want to sell our house before we found a new one, (or rather, a ‘newer’ one) so on the weekends (almost all day on saturday and sundays after church) we have been looking for something that we can fit into. Last week, we found a really nice four bedroom home with an unfinished basement out in O’Fallon. After a bit of negotiating, the seller accepted our bid! So it looks to be a rather big year for us between finally finding a church we like, the new baby on the way and a new home! We intend to remain at the same church in Kirkwood (after all, my brother drives twice the distance to his, so we can surely make it to Kirkwood!) Although the commute is twenty miles further each day, the drive time is just about the same, maybe even a little less!

For by Him all things were created

* “For by Him all things were created, in the heavens and on the earth, things visible and things invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers; all things have been created through him, and for him.” Colossians, 1:16 (W.E.B.)

Here begins an interesting journey. Well, not really. It doesn’t actually begin here. It began a very long time ago, but I digress.

Astute readers will notice that a new category has been added: Christianity. Today’s entry marks the first use of this category. Although I am not nearly as well versed in Theology as some, I do hope to chronicle my particular journey and its experiences.

It began about a year ago. I am an avid reader of Charlie’s journal and try to follow the twists and turns through the maze of lexicological interweavings. I’ve noticed on several occassions that there seem to be issues with which translation of the Bible is more correct than others. Indeed, each translation seems to have its own spin, its own flavor. Comparing two of the same verses from different translations can yield surprising and often confusing results. For instance, the verse from Colossians, 1:16 (quoted above from the Word English Bible) differs significantly from the Message (MSG) translation which reads: “Everything got started in His name and finds its purpose in Him” So, why the difference? More importantly, is the difference really significant?

If we take the Bible as God’s word, then the message should come through regardless of the translation, right? I think the answer is: It depends. It depends on intent. When I was younger, I read the King James Version and occasionally others as well (NIV, NASB) and reading it didn’t affect my spirituality. Was it because these translations had missed something vital? Or was it my intentions? I read the Bible (parts of it, anyway… I have yet to make it cover to cover) because I had heard that it had some good bits of wisdom in it. I had seen Charlton Heston as Moses many times, and enjoyed reading about him as well. But my intent was not to better know the Word, or to seek His guidance, I read the Bible as I read a multitude of other philosophical books. To me, at that time in my life, it was just another book.

Last march, I decided to read the Bible once again. I was spurred on by the debates of which version was “better” than another. It was (and still is) my contention that if your intent is correct, the message will come through. I chose a version that was freely available for my handheld palm device (if you’re curious, it’s the ISV version available from Olive Tree) so that I could easily carry it with me and read whenever the opportunity presented itself. But first, I had to define my intent. I had to realize that this could be an opportunity for transformation and I had to be willing to accept whatever was in store for me. Let me be clear on this point: I did not consider myself a christian when I began reading. The last religious group that I was affiliated with was Buddhist. I’m not sure that I consider myself a christian yet. But that may be changing, and I am willing to accept that.

So nearly a year has passed. I’ve only read the first two books of the Old Testament and parts of Mathew. Has anything changed? Well, as I mentioned in my last post, we are once again expecting a child. Several things in Faith’s life have happened that have pointed her towards christianity. (I won’t go into those here, she’ll tell her story when she’s ready) About a month ago, we started attending Community Covenant Church. This past weekend Faith and I started on the “40 Days of Purpose” with some neighbors. Yeah, definitely some changes. As we work our way through the 40 days, I will be adding entries when appropriate so that you may follow along, or add your own thoughts in the comments below. (Please be respectful, I have yet to censor any comments, but if things get out of hand, I will not hesitate to remove an inflammatory post)

I attended the opening service for 40 Days at a much larger church than my own. My initial impressions were not great. After watching the simulcast of Rick Warren (the author of “A Purpose Driven Life”) I have to say that I found it to be way over the top, so to speak. It was rather like a sales meeting, albeit some very good points were made, and the music was wonderful. It came across to me as a carefully orchestrated event calculated to pull at the old heartstrings (oh yeah, and the pocketbooks, cause you know, there selling the book and the study guides in the lobby!) I borrowed a copy of the book from a friend at church, but I did buy the study guides (for a donation of three bucks, it didn’t tug at the pocketbooks all that much).

That night (Saturday) I was quite disappointed in the whole recruitment-drive feel and wondered if this really is the right thing for us to be doing. I’ve never really felt like I truly belonged in a church to begin with and this overwhelming experience was nearly enough for me to think this really wasn’t a good idea. As I went to bed, I half thought to myself, half prayed for some sort of sign that this was where we need to be. I figured I wasn’t asking for much, maybe just a significant dream while I slept, that’s all. I woke the next morning with no such sign. Well, it was sunday morning, so we loaded up the van and headed off to church. I was still agitated from the night before and tried to relax as I drove. Walking into the narthex of the church, amidst a small throng of people, was a small table that held the church-goers’ nametags (most everyone at this church wears them). Three tags stood out. They were for Faith, Logan and me. Three signs that we belonged there.

Can’t ask for a better sign than that.

Blessing from above

So I’ve been holding my breathe for a little bit, and holding back on the entries here as well. Once again Faith and I are expecting a child! Our first visit to the doctor yesterday confirmed that we are having a single child, not twins like last time! Needless to say we are very excited about this blessing from above! Of course this also means that we will be moving soon. Technically, we outgrew our house two and a half years ago when our twins were born (we currently live in a three-bedroom house with three children) The twins can easily share a room for quite a while longer, but with another child on the way, another bedroom becomes much more necessary. Happy Happy, Joy Joy!

2003- The year that was…

Logan took second place in the Regional Spelling Bee… (on a whim, no less!)

Logan memorized the number pi to one hundred decimal places…

We abandoned the public school system in favor of homeschooling our children…

Xionic Technologies was founded as a Computer Security firm with a local focus…

CrazyAces Media Productions was formed as a graphics design outlet specializing in internet presence, logo generation and the promotion of local artists.

My six month contract with a downtown firm has turned into an ongoing commitment…

In march, we finally replaced our water heater (not by choice)…

We also replaced our washing machine. (also not by choice)

March 19 President Bush announced that the U.S. has begun its military campaign against the Iraqi government.

My computer collection saw the addition of a NeXTstation (complete w’ monitor and laser printer), a couple of Sun Ultrasparc I machines, a couple of old macintosh powerbooks and a beige G3 (happily running 10.2)

My niece Shannon and her husband Ryan welcomed Aiden into the world (and boy, he is growing like a weed!)

I spent a day with Rebuilding Together to help ‘rehabilitate’ a local family’s house. (this was definitely one of the more rewarding highlights of the year)

Ronan and Keenan celebrated their second birthday (and oh yes, the terrible two with twins is twice as bad as you would think!)

We went to our first Renaissance Faire which was quite interesting, and we’ll probably go again.

Faith and I did our first (her second) Body for Life competition. The results were not as good as we hoped, so Monday we start again!

In July, three transformers exploded at the Arch, causing a loss of power for my office and the surrounding buildings for most of the day. With all of the terrorist alerts, this was a bit more alarming than it usually would have been.

I had my first foray into mass transit. I spent two and half months riding the bus to and from work. Except for the extra time needed, it worked out quite well.

Logan and I went on our annual camping/canoe trip in august. This time we floated on the Gasconade river instead of the Meramec or its tributaries.

We took the family to Chicago for a weekend in November to visit relatives that we hadn’t seen in many years. December was the month of mishaps: A close-call with a fire (check those smoke alarms!), a water main break, ::ahem:: diaper artwork, Keenan falling off the chair.
It’s been an interesting year, and a good one at that.